Disable “ADD TO CART” & "Add Wishlist" and others

Dear Sir,
Would you kindly instruct me following?
1, How to change pictures of products as magic slider, current is loading and magnifier.
http://www.westoneslate.com/stone-products/roofing-slate/diana-bag
I want it be like style when I click pictures at http://www.westoneslate.com/project
2, How to disable “ADD TO CART”.
3, How to disable “Add to Wishlist”.
4, What is difference of “VIEW DETAILS” and “SELECT OPTIONS”, how to change to be similar
6, Maybe I made some change, it display “New and Events” (I changed this title for blog) in the product tag page, how I can change to “Tag” title.
http://www.westoneslate.com/sample-product/big-size
6, How to edit category page of blog
http://www.westoneslate.com/category/uncategorized I want to change right sidebar.
Thanks for your kindest help in advance.

Kindest regards,
Wang Cheng